What's Been Going On

We've had a busy few months, eight actually, since my break with blogging.  I'm not sure why I was away for so long, maybe this post will shed some light on the matter.  Looking back, I should have shared so much of that time.  Maybe I'll pick some of the events and build posts on those later, but for now here is what we did from March-December.

2013 in Review

*hosted college friends for weekend *skied/snowboarded near St. Louis *took the train to Glenwood Springs, CO for ski/boarding/mineral spring vacation *celebrated 16th birthday *got a shelter puppy *went to Pella, IA for tulip time *planted flowers *lego robotics camp at MU *trip to NE *heart procedure *car accident *July 4th *outdoor movie nights *trip to PA *made a quilt *cooking class *wood floors re-finished *painted 1st floor *celebrated 20th anniversary *celebrated 19th birthday *trip to England & France *bought new truck *Halloween Party *re-decorated bedroom *created Church directory *trip to Nashville, TN *Thanksgiving in Glasgow, MO *decorated for Christmas *got loads of snow/ice *celebrated 13th birthday *made tons of cookies *participating in Church pageant...and the years not over folks!!!

All I Want for Christmas...

  I really wanted to share this Christmas, 2011, as many don't know what it's like to be separated during the holidays.  Also, I wanted everyone to see this amazing place we spent time at.

Two years ago we were on our second year living in Pennsylvania, one of our favorite assignments, while Gregg was deployed to Afghanistan.  We made the decision for him to deploy that year for a couple of reasons.  First, we had been on the move at a fairly fast pace--3 years/3 different places--which meant 3 different high schools for our oldest.  Pennsylvania was a one year assignment, so you guessed it, a fourth move in 4 years/4 high schools.  To ensure Jake would get to spend his senior year in Carlisle, this was our only choice.  The second reason, and beyond our control, it was his turn to deploy.  You can never say putting a loved one in harms way makes sense, but for a military family, these are the decisions we are faced with.  And, unfortunately, it made sense for us that particular year.

Our one- year started in June, just a day after school was out for summer.  This was also part of the plan, crossing our fingers he would be back for Jake's graduation the following June.  Another positive to the situation, we live for the positives people, was that mid-tour R&R fell around Christmas time.  Woohoo!!!  Fairly early on in a deployment, leave forms are submitted to get everyones R&R requests on a calendar.  This was one of the first times he put in for the two weeks that took us through Christmas and New Years.

Summer and Fall passed quickly, all 3 playing soccer had something to do with that.  And we had made some wonderful friends in Carlisle, who helped us keep the whole year in check.  December was upon us, the boys and I decorated the house--we picked out a real tree--and all the gifts were purchased and wrapped.  The only thing left was for our husband and father to return and  to celebrate the birth of Christ as a family complete.  If my memory is correct, the call came in on Dec. 18 that he would arrive at Dulles airport, 2 hours away, at 6am the next morning.  We loaded up the car that afternoon and stayed near the airport, shuttling over in the morning for our reunion.

Everything went off without a hitch, we even got to meet the Afghan General that Gregg worked for as he escorted him back to be with his family who are living in the US.    When we returned home after a quick hotel breakfast and a little bit of shopping on the way, a welcome home sign had been hung on the house by friends who were hiding inside to surprise our soldier.  It was a great day, as you can imagine, but the day our 2-week countdown began.

The schedule was tight, a lot of activities to pack into a short amount of time.  To begin with, our dear friends K & B--haven't asked if I can name them in the blog--gifted Gregg and I with an overnight stay at a resort in the Allegheny Mountains of southern Pennsylvania.  We went right away, the day after he returned in fact.  These friends also looked after our boys-- I hear stories of a parmesan cheese shaker incident that night, hmmm.  Anyway, what an AMAZING gift that was.  If you ever find yourself traveling through Pennsylvania, GET OFF the turnpike and drive the 3 miles to this little town and resort.  You don't have to stay there, although I highly recommend it, but you should stop and tour the hotel.  There are a few dining options--we enjoyed each one--and a beautiful spa you can spend the day in even if you just get your nails done.  Thanks K & B, love you guys!!!

The rest of our time with Dad was spent watching movies, opening gifts, playing games, eating and just enjoying family.  There was a little trip to Virginia to share a meal with our new Afghan friends,  followed by an overnight in Philly with K & B and family.  They gave us the locals tour of all the sights, including a Rocky style photo-op at the Art Museum.  The New Year came and went and we found ourselves back at the airport, this time sending him back into the fight.  Honestly, the hardest thing I've ever had to do, several times over.

A glimpse at R&R

Fast forward six months and we were back at the airport, going to graduation, moving to Missouri and sending our eldest to college.  So much happens in a year, especially when you're able to look backward at it.  While I wish we didn't have to go through the separations and leaving good friends we've made, I wouldn't trade this life for another. Please hold tight to your loved ones this year, continue to pray for peace and remember all those serving and unable to be home for the holidays!

12 Days -- Post-A-Day

Yep, I'm back!!  I know, crazy, huh?!  Thought I'd challenge myself to this post-a-day, not only to slow myself down and reflect upon what we're doing this month, but to catch up on what's been going on since April.  I can't believe it's been so long, where does the time go?

I started thinking about blogging again as I was decorating our house for Christmas.  I was going through my phone pics and camera--I use the photos to remember how I decorate year-to-year as we move so much nothing ever goes up in the same place--and thought it would be nice to share those with everyone.  Pulling out all the stuff we've collected really brings back the memories of the MANY places we have lived, or traveled to.  I especially like finding the crafts and such that my children have made through the years, goodness, how they have grown!

Last year I used these photos of their art/craft projects from their younger school days as our Christmas card collage.  I had intended to take a snapshot of us together at some point in the fall and it just never happened.  With Jake away at school, we weren't all together much and I realized I didn't have a single family photo since the beach.  Well, that one had girlfriends in it and I wasn't ready for a card like that.  Smile.  I loved how it turned out, lots of nostalgia in these simple things.

Jacob circa 2004

Jacob made the Santa painting in what I believe was 5th grade, I'll have to double-check that.  Gregg's mom has always thought it should have been on a gift bag, like some we saw of child-art at a dollar store one year.  Lacking gift ideas one Christmas, I copied it onto photo paper, full-sized, and had them matted and framed for our Moms that year.  Love when you can give a gift like that!  Last year I had a couple of more copied, smaller though, and just had the matting done for a store bought frame.  Have been holding out to frame the original, think I'll frame one more full-sizer for Jake and then I'll do mine.

Sam 2001

The banner/handprint tree is Sam's work from pre-school at St. Paul's Lutheran Church in Leavenworth, KS.  Loved that place!!  They did the best things with the kids, wish all of mine could have gone there.  Hard to imagine his hand being so small. Sniffle.  Harder to imagine he sat still long enough to make all of those handprints.  Chuckle.

Daniel 2004

And last, but not least, is Daniel's handprint/snowman ornament.  How darling is that?!  They painted their hands white and had the children cup the little ornament in their palm, wrapping their fingers around the side.  Then they got to decorate each "snowman" finger with colored paint pens.  It just so happens their are five of us, so he said each snowman was someone in his family.  Cry.  We still laugh about one of the stick-arms looking like a gun, Dad is in the Army you know.  

Hope you enjoyed seeing some of the creativity that spills out of our home.  It warms my heart bring those years back to life every holiday season!!

Catching Up

Wow, a LOT has happened since I last posted.  I suppose I need to figure out how to make this the weekly priority I had intended.  March turned out to be super busy as I've been away a couple of times-- once to my parents by myself and later to Colorado for Spring Break with my family(more on that soon).  I've added the pics of Mom's lovely lady, adorned in green. I also added one of the entire buffet as she does decorate the whole top as well.

I know it's well past the St. Patrick's holiday and even Easter--can you believe I forgot to take a picture of her Easter/Spring-scape when we passed through on our trip--but until she creates a blog of her own, I'm going to publish her creations.

The weekend I visited was very cold and they had so much snow on the ground.  We had a very low-key weekend because of the weather--walked to the local bakery for lunch Saturday, Church on Sunday--perfect way to relax!  We did tackle a puzzle that I didn't get to see finished, which bothers me to no end.  It was of a pack of white/grey wolves in a snowy forest--so an entire white and grey puzzle really.  I think it got completed within the week, as my Dad wouldn't put an unfinished puzzle away.

I'm really enjoying these short weekends in their little town, can't wait to see it in bloom and hopefully take some pics outside.

 On one of my visits I stopped at an antique mall on the way home, think I blogged about buying a couple of paintings.   I love old oil paintings and they both remind me of our days living and traveling in Europe. I still haven't framed them, and don't know if I will frame one of them.  I would like to find an old, possibly gold frame that can be cut down to fit the one above.  The castle on the hill below has an old string hanger and I think I'll keep it that way for a while--or until I find a wall that will be its forever-home, in my forever-home.  

Hope everyone is having a fantastic Spring week!!!

California Dreamin'

 I started this post a couple of weeks ago, on a day much like today--overcast and raining. While snow is what's coming down now, cold and yucky was the common denominator.  Our youngest son, Daniel, was home from school that day with flu-like symptoms and I spent much of the afternoon hovering nearby.  The computer happens to be in the family room, near the couch, perfect for me to work on uploading photos from the "good" camera.  While doing so, I discovered all the vacation photos my husband took of our trip to California in October.  Man, if that didn't send me off to day-dreaming mode and I knew I had to share.  I had posted some of the pics that I took with my phone on Facebook, but didn't realize how many more we actually had.  Well, something interrupted me in the process of writing this--still can't recall why I didn't make it back--and here I am again thinking about our beautiful, 8-day trip to the West coast.

Like I've said, Gregg returned home from a year-long deployment in June and right away we moved back to the Midwest.  We took a family vacation just before the move, but hadn't been away ourselves since 2006.  After discussing where we would both like to go, we settled on Napa Valley.  We're wine drinkers--white, red, sweet or dry--prefer it to just about any other alcoholic beverage.  Given that we wouldn't be taking our kids to wine country, this seemed like the perfect getaway.  

Please forgive the long string of photos, I'm keeping the captions brief because of it.  Enjoy!!

Ghirardelli Square

Cioppino at Tadich Grill--San Fran's oldest restaurant

View from Water's Edge hotel in Tiburon--sunset

Morning walk in Tiburon, hotel 2nd bldg. on left

Ferry Stop, next door to hotel

Cafe near Water's Edge

Morning Walk--Golden Gate from Tiburon

Lunch in Yountville

French Cafe--waiting to be seated

McKenzie Mueller Vineyards--Napa

McKenzie Mueller 

Grape skins fermenting

Pushing down the skins at Hopper Creek in Yountville

Tasting on patio at Hopper Creek

Hess Barrel Room  

Cardinale Winery

Traditional Home Magazine Napa Showhouse Tour

Wine Tasting in Sonoma County

Alexander Valley Vineyard Cave Tour

AVV Cave Storage

Wine and Cheese Pairing--Alexander Valley

Gregg--Alexander Valley 

Me--Alexander Valley

October Vineyard

Muir Woods near Mill Valley

View from Highway 1

All photos taken by us

Happy Valentine's Day

Wow, I can't believe it's February 14th already!  Seems like we were quietly ringing in the new year a couple of weeks ago.  And I still can't grasp that it's Thursday, where did this week go??  Our weekend absolutely flew by, we sure packed a lot in to 2 days.  On Saturday we set off in both vehicles to stay with my parents in Glasgow, MO and visit our oldest son, Jacob, on the way.  We enjoyed a late lunch with Jake and friend, Eric before turning them loose in one of our cars for the night.  It was a treat for them to have wheels on campus, even if just for 24 hours.

The rest of us, all four, spent about an hour at the mall before heading on to our destination.  Once we arrived, it was a race to the dining room to see how Mom decorated her "bust" for the holiday.  I'm not sure when she began using the figure as part of her decor--or where it came from for that matter--but she's so clever to use it every season.  Wonder what will adorn her after today??

Mom's Muse

The boys met up with Jake and the car after church on Sunday, while Mom and I hurried on to KC for a family baby shower.  We had a fantastic time visiting with relatives--not to mention the drive to and from--and I got an extra night in Glasgow with Mom and Dad.  Monday, after a pit stop at Jake's dorm to deliver Valentine muffins and a spin through Columbia's big antique mall--stay tuned to see my big purchase-- I returned home.

What a weekend, lots of miles and smiles.  We don't ever know how long we have in any one place, but being within driving distance to our son in college and our families is definitely worth it!!

Have a wonderful day!!!!

Sugar and spice...

...that's what little girls are made of!  So the rhyme goes anyway.  Coming from a household full of boys, pink and flowery are two adjectives seldom used in sentences around our dinner table.  Don't get me wrong, I love all things feminine--clothes, shoes, nail polish, pillows, duvet covers...--but I'm on my own in that.  And of course we have three nephews, so no dresses and bows being purchased for Birthdays or Christmas either.  Most of our friends have sons, and the few babies we know being born are boys as well.  Hmmm....

As I said in my previous post, the only other one I've composed, we recently moved to a new duty station with the Army.  Imagine my surprise after unpacking and finally getting around to meet neighbors, there are more girls than boys on the street.  Little girls, dressed in "the" cutest little outfits, toting stuffed animals while running up and down the street screaming.  Ahhhh, heaven on lower Totten St.  The best part being that I can get my fix by chatting about ponies and purple and come back inside to soccer and calm.  

Since moving in, one family has had a parent deploy--mom.  They have three little ones, and dad--retired military--stays home with them.   On occasion the two girls come over to bake with me, something they miss doing with their mom.   I absolutely love it!  And I love hearing them tell me their favorite things to bake with her and what they'll make when she returns.  

Boxed and ready to go

Yesterday was the middle daughters birthday--she turned 6--and I decided to take them cupcakes.  I've been wanting to try this recipe from Magnolia Bakery,  so what better reason.  Of course they were frosted in pink and sprinkled with candy flowers.  We kept a few for us, and delivered two boxes and a bundle of pretty balloons to them before dinner.  They were so excited to see us, so much so that the youngest disappeared around the corner and returned with a piece of construction paper clad in foam letters and pirate stickers.  Did I say Heaven already??  As promised, it now resides on our fridge, where I haven't had child art in some time.   Melt....

I tried my best to create the frosting "swirl" that sets Magnolia cupcakes apart, but after watching the video twice, I just don't have 40 extra hours.  Be sure and let me know if you master it!!!

Dessert for us